We’re Leslie and Laura Camacho - you may remember us from the Marriage Startup podcast (episodes 1-65). We’ve expanded our horizons in the Glimmering podcast to help ourselves - and others - to think and talk about The Big Stuff. Join us as we learn out loud together on subjects ranging from marriage and mental health to politics and parenting. We’re committed to help each other love deeply, grow successfully, and live justly.
Episode 72: Laura’s Sabbatical, the Importance of Holding Space
Episode | January 29th, 2018 | 49 mins 50 secs
In this episode, we talk about Laura’s plans for a sabbatical. She’s finished her year-long coaching certification courses, but instead of diving straight into paying work, she has found she needs to take a step back and do a lot of internal work first. There’s a lot of vulnerability and rawness in this episode, and of course Laura cries. Hopefully it encourages you to look at the roles you play in your life, and how to embody more healthily and authentically the inescapable ones.
Episode 71: A Personal Response to White Frustration and Thoughts on Being a Good Ally
Episode | December 31st, 2017 | 1 hr 37 mins
allies, white fragility
In this episode, we talk about an interaction Leslie had on Facebook with a frustrated guy he went to highschool with. Leslie runs through the interchange and interjects his thoughts and experiences. Laura follows up with what she’s learned about being a white person in the comments. The point of this exercise is to discuss what makes a good social media ally, and how we can improve from where we’re at.
Episode 70: #MeToo and You
Episode | December 10th, 2017 | 1 hr 8 mins
consent, family, kids, metoo, taxes
We take a personal look at the rapidly changing view of sexual harassment and assault in the USA, starting with our own experiences. We want to know how it impacts our partnership, how we should be talking about #MeToo with our kids, and what we can practically do to improve women’s rights. Leslie updates us on the Tax Reform Bill and we talk about our new show artwork, The Heart Switch!
Episode 69: Things We’re Thankful for, Like Successful Family Vacations, but We also Talk about Tax Reform
Episode | November 21st, 2017 | 49 mins 12 secs
family vacation, holidays, politics, taxes
In this episode, We talk about our family vacation to the Great Wolf Lodge, vacations for depressed parents, Magda’s holiday sanity project called Coffee & Eggnog, the Holiday Survival Plan, and some other random things that are making life easier or bringing us joy.
Episode 68: Knowing is Half the Battle. The Other Half is Activism
Episode | November 5th, 2017 | 1 hr 3 mins
activism, parenting, politics, social justice
This is the third and final part of the Awkward Social Justice series. In this episode, we talk about how to take everything we’ve discussed in the first two episodes of this series and channel those things into meaningful action and change. We’re taking the ideological to the practical. We’re newbies at activism, but our gifts are connecting and synthesizing resources, so we’re going to put our efforts out into the world to effect change within our sphere of influence. At root and most simply, that’s what activism really is. Check out our extensive resource list in the show notes!
Episode 67: Learning to Live Justly
Episode | October 16th, 2017 | 54 mins 18 secs
family, marriage, politics, social justice
This is part 2 of the Awkward Social Justice series, where we explore our history as non-activists; trace our inroads into civic engagement and social justice issues; and finally offer a encouragement and resources for others who are just getting started. In this episode, we talk about learning to live justly: the point where we began to put our Awareness to work into engagement and taking Action. Laura talks about the 2 year gap between her big tipping point (Ferguson, 2014) and when she graduated from signal boosting to civic action. Leslie talks about his gradual evolution and a few key moments that have changed his trajectory significantly. This is an invitation to observe where you are in this process, and to be deliberate about the next steps in your own evolution. There are some great resources in the Show Notes to help you do some heavy thinking (mostly on racial injustice, as that remains a theme that is personal for us), and we are always an email away.
Episode 66: Waking Up to Social Justice, a Family History
Episode | October 8th, 2017 | 1 hr 1 min
family, kids, marriage, social justice
This is part 1 of the Awkward Social Justice series, where we explore our history as non-activists; trace our inroads into civic engagement and social justice issues; and finally offer a encouragement and resources for others who are just getting started.
065 – Something Old, Something New
Episode | September 26th, 2017 | 50 mins 2 secs
Show Summary In the final episode of Marriage Startup, we talk about what made the podcast important to us, what we learned, and what we’re taking with us into the new podcast. Yes! The new Glimmering Podcast. It’s a continuation […]
064 – Emotional Labor Pt. 4: Success is a Journey
Episode | April 18th, 2016 | 1 hr 17 secs
Show Summary We wrap up our Emotional Labor series with a look at all we’ve been through, how we’ve improved, and recognition that this is probably a life-long work in progress. Leslie gets endearingly ranty about a favorite soapbox topic, […]
063 – Emotional Labor Pt. 3: A Pause for Introspection
Episode | March 25th, 2016 | 46 mins 40 secs
Show Summary We pause to consider what we’ve learned about Emotional Labor. Laura digs deeper into the problems she’s encountered because of the connection she made between work ethic and approval (and perhaps more importantly, disapproval).
062 – Emotional Labor Pt. 2: The Great Divide, What Makes Division of Labor Difficult for Entrepreneurs
Episode | March 4th, 2016 | 1 hr 4 mins
Show Summary We do our best to figure out why we work together so well in our business but why we revert back to a terrible, draining, backwards 1950s style when it comes to home & family. In part one we […]
061 – Emotional Labor Pt. 1: What are we even talking about?!!!
Episode | February 26th, 2016 | 1 hr 2 mins
Show Summary In this episode, we are dig into Emotional Labor, a major issue that impacts our relationships at home and work in deep, unexpected ways. This is a complex topic, often weighed down by years of bad habits, gender […]
060 – Cold & Flu, Winners & Losers
Episode | February 16th, 2016 | 26 mins 40 secs
Show Summary In this episode, we catch up from being sick for weeks on end. We’ll also announce the winner of the Baron Fig notebook give away and our last giveaway of the “new year.” You don’t want to miss […]
059 – The Power of Choice; Know Your Love Languages
Episode | January 26th, 2016 | 1 hr 1 min
Show Summary In this episode we respond to feedback from our listeners. First up is a thoughtful response to “Soldiering through our emotions” from Molly. Then, we dissect and discuss an article a listener linked us to. We round out […]
058 – What to do when Tragedy Derails Your Plans & Life – An Interview with Joel Boggess from Relaunch
Episode | January 18th, 2016 | 25 mins 58 secs
Show Summary In this episode Joel and Leslie talk husband to husband, human to human about what to do when tragedy derails your plans and impacts your life. It’s genuine, heartfelt, and practical. Joel’s advice is also unexpected and deeply […]